So many people I have talked to lately are going through some tough times and are having a hard time adjusting to one thing or another. I thought because I too have been going through some stuff that I would share how I have been able to push through.
For me I have had to make some tough decisions whether it be personal or health wise. I find it never to be easy but when shit hits the fan, I have found that if I just push my feelings aside and just keep putting one foot in front of the other, i do ok. Then when I have a moment of clarity, I let my feelings surface.
In my opinion no matter what you are going through, you have to do 3 things:
- Never give up
- Act Smart
- Remember who you are
Never Give Up
This is important! Nothing others say or do is because of YOU. So take second by second and don’t over do it! Remember everything YOU Do and don’t do will affect your health.
When you are going through things, sometimes we lead with our emotions. Make sure to keep your emotions in check. Be the bigger person if someone has hurt you and do NOT play their games.
Remember who you are
Do not let others affect how you feel or think about yourself. The only opinion that matters is YOURS. You OWN your feelings.
I know life can be hard and sometimes things just seem to never get better but you must continue on. Find something to keep you busy. Find out what YOU love to do not what others want or think you should do. Life is too short as most of you already know.
So get out and LIVE life!!! Push through the bad days to get to the GOOD days! Enjoy all the NEW BEGINNINGS!!