September Madness

 

I know 3 weeks ago, I promised to go more in depth in regards to chronic illness and relationships, however my health has unfortunately taken a turn for the worse. These past 2 weeks I have been in the hospital, so my post on relationships has been pushed back but I promise to get it done by the end of the month.

Due to the overwhelming messages I decided to write a little post about what is going on with me.  My cell death and inflammation around my organs is at an all time high right now. It appears that the chemo and biologics are doing absolutely nothing except making me miserable. Which in turn makes my pain go from a 6 to 1 million. No SHIT. The pain is so unbearable that I find myself praying God just takes me. With that said I have been in the hospital a LOT.

Thanks Brian for being my Javier to my Letty 🙂 Nothing is ever perfect but it always seems to work itself out……

I would like to shout out to Alisha who has become a really valuable player in my health crap. I am so grateful to her for taking time to help me. Although I think next time Alisha, You will be required to pick me up on the scooter…I mean it just makes more sense than riding in your truck….HA! * I promise not to  pee*

I also would like to thank the BEST NURSE ever, Rocco. Rocco is an amazing example of what a nurse should be like. I spend at least 70% of my life in hospitals and he is the only one that I have ever met who has so much compassion for his patients. He always goes over and beyond.

He will rub my hair until I feel safe, he will do whatever it takes to make  me comfortable. I am NOT a number, to him I am a person. When you are sick like I am, being a person to those taking care of you, is one of the most important things. So many treat us like numbers or like paychecks.  God definitely put him on my path for a reason. I really love this man, he has been taking care of me for over 8 years. I pray all of you battling your illness/disease have at least one person like Rocco on your team, it does make all the difference. If I ever win a million dollars, I would send him and his family on a dream vacation. 😉 No one is more deserving.

I also wanted to touch a little on the dark side of dealing with your body killing you. I know last month I touched a little bit on the Suicide subject because it unfortunately is a huge part of the chronic/terminal community but these past weeks have been the worst for myself. I think it is important that we be able to express how we feel and not have any repercussions. Like I said last month, your thoughts are normal, this life IS hard. The pain, the Dr’s, the hospitals, the lack of support, frustration etc it is REAL. I hope that all of you going through it, keep pushing through it. I have my days when I am just DONE, but I pray that God brings me/all of us through it. Lately life has been really hard on me because I feel that everything is now beginning to slip through my fingers. Everything that the disease to this point has not affected is now affected.  I feel so empty and so vulnerable. I often wonder what the point of my life is?! Some days I can answer this question and some days I just feel so clueless.

Last week I had an appt with one of my specialists who I know hears me but really does NOT listen. It took all I had but I told him that I AM DONE, I will NOT live like this anymore, so he needs to help me figure this out. I am still unsure if he was  completely listening or not but I see him again this Wednesday to change some of my meds that go directly into my spine via my pump. Only time will tell if this will help, if it does not then this….. was for NOTHING.

I told my Dr……

I also see my disease specialist this Thursday because this chemo/biologic mix IS NOT working and we need to look at more aggressive(like the shit i already take isn’t ) treatment options.My disease at this point is winning. My cells are taking over and attacking all my organs, If it continues at this rate, I will not survive much longer. I try not to think this way but it I see my body deteriorating. The internal bleeding is insane, I would show you pics but do not want to freak you all out. The weakness that has always been apart of my disease is extremely overwhelming now, I barely make it up to go to the bathroom anymore. I am lucky if I make it work 1 day now. As I said above, I see all these changes coming on…..as much as i want to keep fighting….I am tired. I still believe this is ME….

but my body quickly reminds me..

I am no longer afraid to die, I believe wholeheartedly that I have fought as much as I possibly could. So if my time is coming, I am ready, I am tired, this life has been full of battles, battles I am proud to say I fight standing up. I am living proof that you can keep going no matter what. In 2001 my specialist said I had 7 years to live, here it is 2017. I have already beat the odds and I will continue to fight until the very end.

I still have a few things to finish, I have this book deal that I want to finish and I just became part of another project that I am super excited about. Not to mention I love being at work…..I mean who wouldn’t want to work around this shit?! And I  really miss training……#america #pewpewpew

So until God takes me I am going to continue to fight and try to enjoy what good things life does bring my way…..I pray you all do the same….XOXO

Trying to wrap my mind around what’s REAL..

A Quick Update About Last Weeks Events

The beginning of the week I felt OK, i worked on Monday, walked a mile on Tuesday, did some grocery shopping and even made it to the HOG meeting.

My belly was hurting some and my pump had been being an ass but I thought i was really improving.

I will not say I was feeling great but I was able to do some of the things that i normally did before last months surgery.  I really felt I was finally making some progress….I should have known that it wouldn’t last long………..

Here is how my Thursday went….

I got up around 9 am, had a cup of cocoa coffee, got dressed and then headed to see the Infection Specialist. Within 10 min of talking to her, she said, you are going to be admitted today. She continued to say that due to my autoimmune disease, this pump would never fully heal. It would stay infected and eventually turn into sepsis. In that moment i felt so helpless and overwhelmed.  I asked her if I could please go home and get a hospital bag packed and make arrangements and she agreed. I left her office in tears because out of 21 gosh dang surgeries this one was the worst!!! All i could think about was i being told I had to do it AGAIN. How could I?! I am still healing from this surgery, so how can you rip me open and take it out? I could not even make it home, so i stopped half way home which was at work. Thank goodness Kim was there! She got me to calm down enough to get back into the car and drive home.

I packed a bag and waited for Brian to get his post covered so he could take me  to get admitted.  While waiting I called my main Dr who disagreed with the Infection Specialist. He said he believed it would heal eventually but told me to go ahead and go to the hospital where they could run some extra tests. Brian and I checked into my room at the Hospital around 3 pm. Once I got settled the Dr on call stopped by with a “game” plan. He had talked to both my specialists and said they were on separate sides of the issue but that he had convinced them to run some tests and then decide my fate. All i kept thinking was WHAT??!! what about what I want??????!!! Next thing I knew they were in the room poking me a million times, they took so much blood i became dizzy.

Then came the fun IV pokes…OH HOW I hate that i have shitty veins!!! I can not wait to get a port. Thank  goodness after 7 pokes they brought in a vein finder…

 This was able to show deep veins.

I wish they had started with this!

My Dr also showed up around 9pm which was nice because at this point I needed to see a familiar face. 11 pm rolled around at apparently this is a great time to do a CT scan. We then stayed up watching movies on my laptop. If you are like me and hate staying in the hospital, take a laptop and some movies or use a website like Netflix. Doing this keeps my mind busy and I seem to worry less about what is going on around me.

Friday morning I awoke to my CNA taking my damn blood pressure and the phlebotomist taking my blood. OH how i hate this shit! Let my ass sleep!!

About an hour later my Infection specialist popped her head in to tell me the news and the plan agreed to by her and my other Dr. Since the CT scan showed NO deep infection only top skin infection that they would give me MORE antibiotics and watch me for a week or so.  IF the top infection began to go deeper, the pump would have to be removed immediately. Ok great so now we have a plan?! at least for this upcoming week…?!  She said yes however she thought she would warn me about having any kind of an infection could turn to sepsis in a blink of an eye due to my serious autoimmune disease, so in her opinion it should just be removed.  UGGG Yes i get it Doctor, you want it OUT of me! And he wants to salvage it!  Got it!

With that I got up packed my shit and left the hospital.

NOW with all this said, these are MY THOUGHTS on the subject…..

Several people think i should be removing this pump. Some of you think i should stop working the few days I do and spend 7 days on bed rest instead of the 4 I already do.  Some of you want me to stop doing chemo. Some of you think i should do more chemo. Some of YOU have LOST your FUCKING minds!

This is MY body, MY life and some people have forgotten that! Until you have walked in my shoes, do NOT tell me how to BE sick. Trust me if there  was a damn manual on how to die, i would have read it a time or two. Do you think that I like doing chemo meds, biologic, pain meds every week? Do you think i chose to walk with a cane more than not? Do you think I like not being able to eat the foods i want? Do you think i like thinking about death almost every day? Did i choose to have 21 surgeries and counting?! Do you not think I am so overwhelmed by all of this?

I would never tell you how to feel about watching me be in pain, suffer and eventually die. I know no one is purposely trying to do harm but it really does. It makes me feel awful and it angers me. My time, all our time is limited, so why waste it on hurting someone even if it is accidentally. The only solution I have to this problem , is just talk to me about how you feel. I will try to listen to all you have to say but please understand I do not want to hear about the latest greatest “cure” for this and that and I don’t want to hear about how i should spend what little time I have doing this or that……. so try to keep these 2 things to a minimum.

Trust me when I say that I try with everything I have to be positive. Which is very hard as you can imagine.

 

If you want to know more about my health and how far I have come, READ here: All About ME   This is where you can read a “readers digest” version. I am currently writing a more in depth version that will be available later this summer.

Having more BAD luck than good does not keep me down, it just reminds that the Best is yet to come!

  #TRUTH

Besides I did have a few good things happen this week:

I got my compact back from Zephyr Defense. My friend Dan does amazing work!! I love the Punisher looks fantastic on it! Now both my Gun Kidz look great thanks to Dan!

 

I also was able to make it to work TODAY which was so good for me! My coworkers have a way of making life a little more worth living!

I am sure this week will have its complications but I will hit them dead on like I do every damn week! Just remember to NOT judge others!

 

I always try to follow this plan…..

And when that stops working, I always have a place to go….

 

For I know that my body is getting tired….

 

But never fear I will not just GIVE up, I will continue to crawl, scream, fight and push myself until I hear, “come to me.”

Have a good week and i will keep you all informed, no matter what the Dr’s decide…..Thanks for all of you who continuously supports me in all I do and don’t. Love you all times infiniti xoxo

 

 

I Stopped waiting for the light at the End of the tunnel…..and LIT that Bitch up Myself!

Hi Everyone,

It has been a few weeks since my last post, so lets catch you all up……

April 6th I had a Dr appt with my Rheumatologist. I have a really hard time dealing with her because she is one of those Dr’s that says, “even if I have your diagnosis wrong, I am giving the meds that will attack it all, so no worries.” Umm excuse me, I am having some new symptoms can we look at those?  “No Kari, as I said before it really does not matter, I treat all blood/immune diseases with the same meds.”  UGGGG   The only thing I got out of that appointment was my blood work forms.

Friday Morning, i spent with a vampire(phlebotomist.) I have been seeing the folks at quest diagnostics for more years than i would like to share 😉 They have online appointment scheduler which I love, no more wasting *spoons* at the vampire house! The ladies who work at quest are always super friendly and I do not feel like a number to them which is NICE!

Saturday I was still feeling this shit spinal headache so i spent most of the day at home, although we did have dinner at beefys. I really do not care for their food but everyone else does so I am about 80% sure it is the chemo meds fucking with my taste.

Sunday the 9th, i made it to work which was great! I love when I can get out and talk to adults instead of spending the entire day with furkids, day in and day out. Even though I get to be around such cuteness….

Cuteness everywhere I go……Girls with guns RULE!

 We do have fun!

Monday I did manage to make it to work although I was having a lot of pain around my pump area. For 5 hours i faked my way through it with a smile. I even got to shoot some new guns. The Glock 10mm was awesome!

The rest of the week (Tuesday-Friday) I did my chemo and continued to have pain around my pump area which by Friday was making me just miserable.  My arms and shoulders were also aching like i had spent the last 3 days at the gym……My blood tests also came back and were shitty, like i expected. I will write more about this in a moment.

Even though all this bullshit, I did have a few positives this week…my BFF Rhonda called and we chatted for over and hour which was great, i really needed her. My friend from work (kim) came over on Thursday to save my ass which I was very grateful for! I drove to Quincy, Ca for a LOH pre ride. I enjoyed this time just driving and trying to clear my head. It was so beautiful up in the mountains. I do LOTS of things to relieve my stress, my health gives me..

 

Brian and I started the Netflix series Iron Fist which has been pretty good so far.  Sometimes when all the shit is hitting the fan, it is good just to occupy your mind with other stuff.

Ok back to the Blood test, I have avoided it enough!  The test was bad as I projected it would be. I know my body!!!! I can NOT emphasize this enough. We all know our bodies….healthy or not! Listen to it! Anyways, my liver is struggling, both my ALT/AST are high, My white count is down(more than the methotrexate(chemo drug) usually does,) and MORE importantly the numbers that tell us how much my cells are killing me is has sky rocketed…..let me explain.

Lets say, you are a healthy person, you go in for some blood work…you MIGHT see a 1-3 on the scale. This is  Normal.

Abnormally High begins at 14

Mine is 98

Now do you get it?! I certainly hope so. So you  can see why I have been in a pure panic. The chemo and biologic drugs that i do EVERY gosh dang week are supposed to be pushing these numbers down! IF THIS IS WHAT it looks like when they are supposedly doing their job..what does it look like when i quit them???????

BUT life goes on…I pull up my big girl panties, fake a smile and go into work.  I can’t talk for everyone but when I feel so much frustration I do one of 2 things: i either freak out or I do funny things..like drive in the middle of the Gun range….HA! Laughter truly is good medicine!

 

This past week was a long week for me, not only because I was not feeling well or the fact that my blood tests were on my brain 24/7 but because I worked extra hours and I was also dealing with another sick cat. Oh when it pours it fucking pours at our house.

I did manage to walk 2 miles this week.. HOORAY!!!

As if things couldn’t get worse, i was reminded that it can always get worse…

On Sunday i went to work as usual, was feeling bad but not enough to call in. I worked my hours, headed home and as I undressed, i saw all this yellow stuff on my belly guard that goes over my pain pump incision. In my head i made all these excuses of what it could be, and just went on with my afternoon.  It wasn’t until around 10 pm, i looked down at my incision and saw a whole in the incision that was leaking out some kind of liquid. I panicked, called the Dr and he said get to the hospital NOW. We headed over and good thing we did, i have not 1 but 2 infections around the pump. There is a saying,” God doesn’t give you more than you can handle.” I call bullshit! Seriously Lord, I am so overwhelmed. How can I possibly keep going?

Always amazes me how the morning can start like this..

and end like this………

So for those people who say, You look so good, how can you be so sick….spend some time with anyone fighting an autoimmune disease…my door is always open….

In the hospital they filled 4 of these bottles with my blood and 4 other vials for testing.

It was no Buenos! Then made me stay the night so they could give me extra strength IV antibiotics. If you know me, you know how much I love spending the night in the hospital. ;-( I will say though, the Dr was nice and so was my nurse. They even wheeled in a spare bed so that Brian could stay with me, because It was the RIGHT thing to do……although he slept…LOL

The following day I was sent to see my Specialist….who was an hour late……

He said he was worried about the infections because of my no immune system, so we decided to take me off of chemo and biologic’s for the next few weeks so that the antibiotics can do their job…or so we hope.  I also have an appt for May 4th with an infectious disease specialist.

I feel this is a double edge sword and this is why, first off taking me off all chemo and biologic’s means that my damn disease will have a party(remember my number from above?) so this will make me very uncomfortable and might do some real organ damage. Secondly, the Dr is unsure if these antibiotics will help with what infection my body is currently fighting which means if it continues, I will have emergency surgery to remove the pump and worse case i could die from the infection spreading to all my organs that are already sick.  Like I said double edge sword.

But with all this going on…

and even if I don’t I will go down fighting with everything I have.

 

 

To everyone out there dealing with Life….Hang in there….never give up. It can always be worse…..

We are all worth fighting for. We are all dying the moment we are born. Some of us are just meant to go sooner than others. I would like people to say after I am gone, that I lived every moment I could. I fought and never gave up. I believe that God has a bigger plan that I have for myself. Am I scared, yes everyday, but if i let fear win, i die now. So when you see me out and and about, know I am fighting with everything I have to be out and about. If you have your health, do NOT let anything or anyone else take time from your life. Live to the fullest. Do it for you and no one else.Everyone goes through bad stuff, just remember it isn’t always going to be like this. As my friend told me once before she lost her battle to breast cancer, “don’t be sad we are sick Kari, we are going somewhere pain and sadness does not exist.” And i KNOW this but it is the getting to that place that is zero fun. I have a hate/love relationship with my disease. I hate it because it is so damn painful, i have to take meds that make me sicker, i see Dr’s more than I see friends, I am bed ridden 70% of the time, I can’t enjoy the things i used to do like play the drums, hike, jet ski, train like I want, work full time, finish my bachelors, and so much more. I love my disease because i now appreciate every second of my life(for the most part), I love people wholeheartedly, i take very little for granted and i have more compassion for those around me.

Speaking of compassion, I would love if everyone I know locally would join us/help on June 24th when we ride for the 22 veterans who commit suicide daily.

Be grateful that we live in the USA and for the people who put up their lives DAILY for ours! a HUGE thank you to all veterans and active duty!! Prayers to those who have lost family members to suicide.

 

Life will never be perfect for any of us, however It is what we do with what we are dealt with, that makes or breaks us. I might be a mess 4 days out of 7 but I get up on my own two feet and fight back the other 3. 

I will never stop believing I have a purpose.

One last note….I know many of you are worried about me, i can tell by the many texts, calls, etc. I promise you all, even when i am as quiet as a mouse, I am not giving up, sure I am probably thinking about it but I am a fighter, I always have been. I don’t give up easily. This health journey has been super hard, I never thought in a million years that I would wake up sick and never get better. I never thought so many people would leave me because I was sick. I never knew how evil people could be when you needed them the most. I never thought I would have to give up so many life goals due to being sick. I never thought I would be living in bed most my life. I learned a long time ago that it is normal for the chronically/terminal sick to go through the 5 stages of grief. I often find myself especially after bad blood tests and or bad health news, that i like to stay in the  Isolation and anger stage for awhile. It is hard to get through your head that your OWN body is killing you and that no matter what you do…it doesn’t change.

Thank You all for your continued support, I love you all so much. Support each other, treat others with respect,  be grateful for every second you get and no matter what your struggling with be BRAVE!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your worth fighting for

 

I hope that everybody has had a great past few weeks. I have been busy being sick fighting this damn disease and have had very little time to keep everyone updated…..BUT I have a few minutes to spare before I go back to bed….and I guess I will spend them with YOU….FEEL LUCKY

Here is where we left off…

 

Tuesday, November 24 Well lets just say I spent the day in bed….it was chemo day.  Although I did crawl out of bed long enough to get my Christmas tree out and put together.  Damn did that wear me OUT.  This was a reminder of just how little energy I have most days.

Wednesday the 25th I woke with severe spine pain!!! I  HATE how chemo drugs mixed with my disease attack my spine. AARG  THIS was a stay in bed all day kind of day!

Thursday the 26th was thanksgiving…. I managed to eat some turkey , potatoes and stuffing. I did not let my belly be the boss today ……however this is how I felt later in the day.. Internal bleeding is zero fun ;-(

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Friday the 27th I stayed in bed wishing I could go shopping or at least go out and have some coffee…

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Saturday I woke up and I couldn’t move my hands for hours OH HOW I LOVE MY DISEASE!! But I was super grateful my girlfriend made me a Christmas tree to go with my Christmas décor. I love how perfect it is for me!! Thanks Blondie

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Sunday I worked for a few hours and even visited with Santa…He better bring me some gifts…I only ask for a warm plug in blanket and some carhartt socks. Part of my disease does not allow my blood to circulate so I freeze all year long. These items would make my life MUCH better. Side NOTE…I used to ask for jewelry, cars and clothes and now its stuff to help me get through my health SHIT….Funny how things change.

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Monday the 30th I worked…I love where I work, I know I say it all the time BUT everyone I work with is so Awesome and they don’t make me feel sick.  Sundays and Mondays really FORCE me to get away from my bed ridden disease. A BIG hug to all I work with, you all are super special 😉

I started DECEMBER off with a BANG and I did my chemo drugs and it was just a crappy day as USUAL. WOOHOO BAH HUMBUG

 

Wednesday, December 2  I was very sick in fact I was in bed until 7 PM vomiting and I HAD FLU Like  feelings but I had to drive to Sacramento at 8pm so I could pick my BFF up at the airport. Super excited to see RHONDA!!

December 3 I went in for my second treatment and this time Brian tagged along so he could learn how to do them so I could later on do them at home. I feel like such a puss when I allow tears to fall down my cheek as they push the drugs into my system.  I just hate all these chemicals in my body. I just do NOT know which is worse the drugs or just letting the disease KILL me. Sometimes I just want to let the disease take over because I am suffering anyways so what is the fucking point?! Just another one of these damn days….

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Friday Dec 4th,  I am very sick and I was in bed until 7 PM again which really pissed my off because my BFF flew from LA NOT to watch to watch me suffer and or sleep all day. BUT this is MY fucking life and this is what I do every week!!!!  I just feel so guilty sometimes that my body doesn’t care who is visiting or who wants to do something.

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Saturday Dec 5th is a very important day to Brian and I and we had plans but so DID my asshole disease.  He however was able to take me and Rhonda to dinner and I was able to eat half of a Boca burger . YA I got to eat!!!!!! Later in the evening Rhonda and i made each other wreaths! they turned out great and we made another memory. In the end that is what life is all about! I can’t tell you how happy i am having her here visiting. I am just sad i was in bed or in the bathroom more than i was with her.  Rhonda if my disease takes me before we see each other again know i love you times INFINITI. No one has ever stuck around like you. She never said, i was to sick to be around or that she didn’t want to watch me die like other friends did. You are what a real friend IS. Thank YOU

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December 6th I made it work or rather crawled to work….(although I bet none of you knew how I sick I felt) I can HIDE IT WELL. 😉 I then drove back to Sacramento to drop Rhonda off back at the airport. Then very carefully drop back over icy Donner. It took me 2 hours longer to get home.  When you start with ZERO energy and then have to do all I did….lets just say it SUCKED.  If I could just find a way  to get rid of a QUARTER of this pain, I would…

December 7th I made it to work AGAIN. YA ME!!!! I am so grateful for the customers who always put a smile on my face every Monday.  They have no idea how much I am suffering inside and to hear the compliments they tell me really make my day. Also Colin the 49er Elf keeps me busy and I heard he keeps the crew on their toes during the days I don’t work. I am very happy Colin found a new job…. HA! This coming weekend I will be bringing Colin’s girlfriend by the Gun Range for a conjugal visit. She misses him. 😉  See what you all miss at the Range? You should make time to come down and see us all! I mean it is the only place where Colin the elf will model an UZI for you!!

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December 8th (yesterday) I woke up and could not feel my legs and left arm. I guess I am now having a reaction to the chemo and other drug mixing! SHOCKING!!! Lol   So because of this I could not do my chemo meds last night because I was miserable. Today was also a day where i just stood in the shower crying as more of my hair fell to the floor. I never thought my hair had to so much pull on my life. Sometimes i just feel so ugly and i am tired of wearing bandannas. I just want my old life BACK…or parts of it.

 

December 9th is TODAY bitches…..I woke up at 11, forced myself to get up and take the DOG to the park and enjoyed the fresh air. Picked up my meds and came back home to go back to bed. And well now I am writing to all of you because some of you are impatient…HEEHEE  I am just teasing….I love how many followers I have now and how many of you write to talk to me about your crap and or happy experiences(do we have many?! ;-)) with your disease.  My online support group is how i get through most days.

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I really hope everyone is enjoying their month of December so far. Before I got my death sentence/millionth diagnosis, Christmas was my favorite time of the year. However now it makes me a little sad, I have no energy to do as much décor as I would like, or to go shopping(and since being on disability and living with a chronic painful disease I can’t work but 2 days now so $$$ is low) or to travel anywhere. Sometimes this month just reminds me just how unlucky I am.  I am too exhausted to do anything, this is the month 3 years ago I started weekly chemo drugs. This is the month I just sit and stare at my tree praying that magically it will decorate itself because I am so exhausted after just putting it together and then I am also reminded that I will have to take it all apart in a few weeks….UGGG

Anyways being negative or being stuck in my own head doesn’t help although I know writing and sharing this helps others in my same situation. So i will just keep at it, one day at a time…fuck that…one second at a time because that is really what I AM DOING….and i think most days i do it pretty well…

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Ok so here is where I bitch or INFORM you all on something , in OTHER words this is my opinion, take it or leave it i don’t care ….

So today I open carried..  (yes ken and Greg, I can hear your comments and evil stares..) to the store to pick up my meds. Anyways the cashier asked how she can carry a gun. I then asked her if she has ever trained or anything and she said NO and that she just want to own one.****** This is what I told her …..i want to be a ballerina so I will just go and buy some ballerina shoes and a tutu and then magically I will dance like a ballerina. She quickly replied with, “you can’t just be a ballerina like that, you need training.” As I walked off I said, EXACTLY…..go check out Reno Guns 😉  I heard her say your right thanks, I will check it out. 😉     With that said, I think it is SUPER important for anyone to train and practice practice practice. Being a gun owner is like anything else, you need to keep up your skills. Women( I say women because I have more women who quietly send me messages because they are nervous and or scared to be around guns) do NOT be afraid to come in and train. Don’t be afraid to be around guns, remember guns DO NOT OPERATE BY THEMSELVES. Talk to me about anything and if I don’t know the answer I work with some amazing guys that will have an answer. At Reno Guns we have some great instructors and like a customer said last week to me….they are cute to look at too.  😉

I also want to take a second to address some other readers/bloggers recent  blogs about how how can some people be so sick and look so good. Many of us who look “GOOD” on the outside understand this issue. In many of our cases, it is our INSIDES that are sick which YOU CANT SEE. This is why they call it “invisible disease.”  Or when someone asks what your disease is and then they want to tell you what to do for it, when they know ZERO about it. In the end we know our fight, and we do NOT need to PROVE to anyone anything and we certainly do not need to listen to others rude comments about what they WOULD do if they had our disease. —-This is one of  my favorite—-  We have a hard enough time with loved ones, doctors etc, we don’t need shit from bystanders. Love yourself always even if it IS just second to second

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